Some of you may remember the “good old days”, when people helped one another just because that’s how they were raised. That’s not the case, anymore. If you want any sort of assistance or help at all, you better have enough money or enough connections because if you don’t, there is no help. Some might ask, why is that? Well, that’s one hell of a good question. However, I believe that there are many reasons people aren’t as generous or helpful as they once were, the first one being morals.
Kids aren’t raised the way they should be; you say the word “spanking”, and a puzzled look comes across their face. All throughout their life they see others getting away with wrongdoing, and they decide to try it out. Once they get away with it, it slowly progresses throughout their elementary years, and once they get to high school it reaches it’s peak. They are doing drugs, getting drunk, getting pregnant (or getting someone pregnant), and they don’t face any consequences for their actions. Then, they get out of high school and move on to the real world, and realize that they have made a huge mistake, and that they have possibly screwed their entire life up. Then, when they go to get help from someone, no one cares if they need help or not because they’re screw-ups, and I couldn’t agree more.
Now, that being said, let’s move to the opposite end of the spectrum, where the problem still boils down to how they were raised. They grow up seeing their father, the surgeon, making tons of money, and coming down on them hard to do well in school. Some do, and some take the path that I mentioned before. The ones that do take their schooling seriously, seem to lose all of their sympathy for the poor, underprivileged and mistreated. They want to charge the hell out of the elderly and unfortunate, but in turn want to drive around Porsches and Ferraris. Now, as for the type of people we talked about before, who have messed their life up because of bad decision making, I can’t blame the doctors and medical employees charging a lot of money, or making them wait a little longer for healthcare. However, it seems that the doctors and healthcare professionals don’t make them wait because of who they actually are or what they’ve done, but because of their social status.
I believe that this is a prime example of bad parenting. People who are brought up thinking that they’re better than everyone else, tend to stay that way for the rest of their life. For the most part, that remains true with people who are brought up thinking that they’re worthless. However, there are those select few that are changed forever because they realize that they are not worthless. They stop caring what everyone else says or thinks about them, and just try as hard as they can to be a good person. Those are the ones who truly care about the well being of others, and that’s the sad part. The people who are brought up having piles of money, and have the potential to truly help people, don’t. They become pathetic excuses for human beings, who are self-centered and stuck-up. Whilst the people who have nothing tend to be the most genuine people you’ll ever meet. Now, you may be thinking “has he forgotten about all the celebrities who donate thousands of dollars every year to charity”, so let’s talk about those people.
Do you think that every celebrity who’s ever donated money did it because they cared about who they were helping, or do you think it was because they cared about how everyone else looked at them? I’m not saying that every person with money is anally challenged, because they’re not, but generally speaking, a lot of them are. There are some celebrities that center their careers around helping others, whether it starts that way or not. Those are the ones who really make a difference in peoples’ lives, because not only do they give their money, they give their time, and most of all, their love.
So, I’m done with my little rant, but I would appreciate it if people would raise their kids to be respectful, caring human beings, instead of pathetic (whether they be on the stuck-up end or no-good end) slobs. Raise good people who are going to better the world for all the rest of us.